The Science Behind How to Keep a Habit

Habits, from the outside, might seem like simple routines; but underneath the surface, habits are deeply rooted in the biology of our brains. They’re formed and maintained by neural pathways that strengthen with repetition. Yet, building new habits often feels harder than it should ... why is that? The answer lies in how our brains prioritize energy, and creating a new habit takes cognitive effort and discipline. By understanding the science of habit formation and leveraging a few tricks mentioned below, you can be successful.

The Role of Dopamine in Motivation

One of the most effective ways to build a habit is to start small. Neuroscience tells us that every time you accomplish a task, no matter how small, your brain releases dopamine, a neurotransmitter associated with reward and pleasure. This dopamine release reinforces the behavior, making you more likely to repeat it.

For example, if your goal is to start meditating regularly, committing to just five minutes a day is enough to activate this reward pathway. Over time, as the behavior becomes easier, your brain adapts, and the habit takes root.

Connecting Habits to Purpose

Research shows that habits tied to personal meaning are more likely to stick. When you understand why a habit matters to you, you engage the prefrontal cortex—the part of your brain responsible for decision-making and long-term planning. This connection between purpose and action strengthens your commitment to the habit. Ask yourself: Why do you want to build this habit?

For example, drinking more water might not seem exciting on its own, but if you connect it to having more energy to play with your kids or focus at work, it gains emotional significance.

Habit Stacking aka. Associative Learning

Habit stacking is a technique grounded in the science of associative learning, where your brain links a new behavior to an existing one. This strategy reduces the mental load of remembering to perform the habit because it’s tied to something you’re already doing. By attaching the new habit to an existing routine, you create a neural shortcut that strengthens with repetition.

For instance:

• Drink a tall glass of water after brushing your teeth.
• Take supplements while your coffee or tea brews.
• Practice deep breathing while driving or walking.

Positive Reinforcement

When you celebrate progress of any kind or size, you activate the brain’s reward system which reinforces the habit loop. Positive reinforcement strengthens the neural pathways that support habit formation, and it doesn’t require grand gestures. A simple acknowledgment, like treating yourself to a favorite snack, journaling your achievements, or sharing with a friend, can activate your brain’s reward circuits in reinforcing positive behavior.

Progress, not Perfection

Perfection is not required for habit formation. In fact, the “all or nothing” mindset can be counterproductive. Missing a day does not erase the neural pathways you’ve worked so hard to build, it simply pauses them. What’s important is to resume the habit the next day without guilt.

Habits are built on consistency, not perfection. By understanding the biological and psychological mechanisms behind habit formation, you can approach the process with patience and intention.

Building habits is about working with your brain, not against it. By starting small, connecting to your “why,” habit stacking, and having fun along the way, you can create habits that last. With a little persistence and self-compassion, you will set yourself up for long-term success.